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Marty’s mission is to Create Confident Kids to Eliminate Bullying.  She wants kids to feel great about themselves, and teachers and administrators to spend more time doing what they love – teaching and leading. Marty has used her experience as a former teacher, school based social worker and now as a success coach, to design a program with the goal of decreasing childhood suicide and absenteeism from school caused by fear of confronting the bully by 25% in the next 5 years. Creating Confident Kids

She got fed up with the fact that despite all our school regulations and “Anti-Bullying” and “Stop Bullying” campaigns, that 4,400 students commit suicide each year ( and 160,0000 are absent every day ( due to fear of confronting the bully. She realized that using an approach used by such leaders as Nelson Mandela, Martin Luther King, Gandhi, and Mother Teresa to turn the tide of human history, she could design a Create Confident Kids to Eliminate Bullying Program that would work!

Marty uses a simple, straight-forward and actionable formula that focuses on what we all want – confident kids VS what we don’t want – more bullying. By shifting our focus and resources to what we want, we too can change the course of history and decrease incidents of bullying, childhood suicide and absenteeism rather than continuing to focus on Stop Bullying, Anti-Bullying that has increased these incidents.

As children discover their power within they can feel confident and secure about who they are. No matter who says what to them at school or online, they will remember the truth of who they are and not believe the bully. It is in believing the bully that we are harmed.

We can create school cultures that is “All for one and one for all.” By shifting the focus from competition to cooperation, that can contribute to decreasing student suicide and absenteeism and making school a safer, more secure place where children can focus on learning and growing rather than avoiding the bully.

*Parents * Teachers *Mentors *Administrators *Coaches

  • Do you work or live with children who are the Bully or the Bullied?
  • Are you wondering where to turn for answers of how to change their behavior or protect them?
  • Are children getting sick more often and missing out on school?
  • Are they withdrawing more and more or is their acting out escalating?
  • Are you tired of pulling your hair out as you watch the problem get worse and worse?

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Create Confident Kids to Eliminate Bullying Program

Provides simple, straight-forward answers on how to teach step by step skills of how to turn the Bully and Bullied’s feelings of Insecurity and Not Good Enough into secure and self-confident in who they are. This trailblazing program teaches simple, straight-forward steps that de-escalates Bullying and builds self-esteem.

Whether you are an administrator, teacher, mentor, scout leader, or their parent, The Create Confident Kids to Eliminate Bullying Program teaches you how to create an atmosphere of co-operation and effective communication so that both the Bully and Bullied feel safe and secure.

It is the first program of its kind that focuses on teaching the Bully and the Bullied where to find their real power – in their Talents, Abilities, and Gifts (TAGs) and how to manage their emotions in the moment. They learn how to transform anger and overwhelmed into constructive actions that supports their feeling of self-worth rather than covering up their feeling of Never Going to Make It and Got Good Enough with aggressive action and demeaning others or by withdrawing and self-destructive behavior.

Parents Take the Pledge

Bully and the bullied are the flip side of the same desire to be loved and appreciated for wScreen Shot 2015-05-27 at 7.44.34 AMho they are and to make friends, have fun, and succeed in school. Creating Confident Kids to Eliminate Bullying Program is asking parents to take the pledge: I will TAG My Kid for SUCCESS™ by reminding my child how Talented Able and Gifted they are each day. Go to:  discover how to improve your child’s self-esteem as you TAG Kids for Success™.    Listen to the song Bully to Boss No Longer at a Loss To Get the 40 Minutes Complimentary Honor the Blueprint of Your Soul as You Create ConfidentBreakthrough Strategies Session Click Here and Set up a time to Talk. You can get started right away on finding answers to build children’s self-esteem and empower them to make safe, healthy, decisions that enhance their self-esteem.

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Our goal is to have 1000s of Elementary and High School aged kids be part of or see the play and learn to BELIEVE IN THEMSELVES rather than the mean words of the bully